Monero have an amazing community and some brilliant developers… but their “top down” culture is that of elitist and trolls. That narrative appeals to the projects core fan bass.
Once you understand that, its easy to understand and ignore the way some of their community act. Its not an attack on ETN, its just the Monero culture. They have some brilliant and talented people involved who don’t cultivate that culture. They are the back-bone of the project.